The Regulated Leader Live Working Session

Catch It in the Body: 4 Steps

The 4-Step Pattern Behind Caving, Stalling, and Undercharging

Lower your price mid-call. Say yes before they finish asking. Research one more course instead of sending the follow-up. Snap at someone later and not know why. It's not four bad days. It's one four-step pattern your body runs. In this live workshop, you'll find the body signal that starts it and practice a 60-second shift. Leave able to catch it while it's happening, so you can hold your price, say the true thing, and stop stalling.

Lisa Adams
Hosted by Lisa AdamsFounder of The Regulated Leader. 20 years building businesses while learning to master somatic nervous system regulation.
Upcoming Live Sessions (Thursdays & Tuesdays)
75 Minutes Live + Interactive Practice
Private Zoom + 48-Hour Replay
Live Interactive Workshop
Free Registration

Save Your Spot in the Working Session

Instant confirmation + private Zoom room link + printable 4-step worksheet.

We'll email you the calendar invite, private Zoom link, and replay access.
Includes 48-hour replay recording if you cannot attend live
Zero spam guarantee — your information is kept strictly private
The Familiar Moment

You know the moment.

Someone asks, "What's the investment?" and you hear yourself lower the number.

Or you say yes before they've finished asking.

Or the call goes great, so you sign up for one more course instead of sending the follow-up proposal.

Later, you snap at someone who did nothing wrong, or lose an evening to your phone, and you decide you're just not ready, too nice, or bad at this part.

The Truth

You're not broken.
It isn't four bad days.

It's one pattern your body has been running for years. Because your autonomic nervous system learned long ago that compliance or stalling kept you safe.

Find the physiological trigger point before it speaks for you
Practice a repeatable 60-second nervous system reset
Hold your pricing & communicate clearly under pressure
The Somatic Reality

The 4-Step Pattern Behind Caving, Stalling, and Undercharging

In this live working session, you'll slow the pattern down and see it from the outside for the very first time.

01The Gateway

The Trigger Moment

The instant the ask lands

Someone asks 'What's the investment?' or asks you to take on scope. This is a doorway, not the problem itself.

What fires:
"Chest tightens, ears warm, sudden urge to rush"
02The Root

The Body Signal

What your body does in the second before you speak

Before a single thought forms, your nervous system interprets social discomfort as physical danger. Breathing catches; stomach drops.

What fires:
"Throat constricts, heart thumps, breath halts"
03The Reflex

The Cave Move

What you do next — and why it's a trained reflex

You discount mid-sentence, say 'yes' before thinking, or over-explain. It is not lack of spine or willpower — it's an autonomic protective maneuver.

What fires:
"Sudden compliance to alleviate immediate tension"
04The Loop

The Disappear Behavior

What you do afterward to avoid feeling it

You snap at someone later who did nothing wrong, scroll your phone for hours, or buy another course instead of sending the follow-up.

What fires:
"Exhaustion, shame spiral, numbing out"

This isn't a mindset talk.

Affirmations and intellectual strategies help for about a week because they don't reach the neurobiological layer that takes over in the moment that matters. We start with the body.

Tangible Outcomes

You'll Walk Away With

No vague theories. This is a live working laboratory for your nervous system.

Your Own 4-Step Pattern

Mapped out in your exact words from a real memory, so you recognize it instantly.

Immediate Application

Your Physical Warning Light

The exact spot in your body—chest, throat, jaw, or belly—that fires first.

Immediate Application

One 60-Second Shift Practiced Live

A somatic regulation shift you can execute unobtrusively mid-conversation.

Immediate Application

Catch It In Real Time

The ability to catch it while it's happening, rather than agonizing in hindsight.

Immediate Application

Is This Workshop For You?

Clear expectations ensure everyone gets genuine value from this working session.

This is for you if...

  • You lower your price or discount before anyone pushes back
  • You say yes to clients, family, or community and resent it later
  • You stall right when something starts working, or keep signing up for one more course
  • You know what to do and still don't do it consistently
  • You're tired of trying to think or affirm your way out of it

This is not for you if...

  • You want pricing scripts or sales tactics (this works on what happens before the script)
  • You want a promise that you'll never cave again (one workshop starts the shift; it doesn't finish it)
  • You want to watch passively (it's a working session; you'll fill in your pattern as we go)
  • You're looking for therapy or crisis support (this is nervous system education and coaching, not treatment)
Client testimonial

"For three years I underquoted clients by 30-40% the moment they hesitated. After Lisa taught me to recognize the throat constriction that hit 2 seconds before I spoke, I held my full rate on three consecutive client calls."

Elena M.Founder & Agency Director
Lisa Adams, Founder of The Regulated Leader
Lisa Adams
Founder, The Regulated Leader
Your Guide

Lisa Adams

Lisa Adams spent almost 20 years building businesses while her nervous system ran the show. Once she learned to regulate it, everything changed.

She's a behavior coach who has worked with trauma and behavior in a First Nations school, and she teaches the exact same small shifts she uses herself every day.

Now she helps entrepreneurs stop stalling, undercharging, and people-pleasing—one small somatic shift at a time.

20 Years
Entrepreneurship & Leadership
Somatic
Trauma-Informed Behavioral Coaching
Human Connection in the Age of AI

Why AI can't regulate your nervous system

"AI can hand us scripts and strategies, but it can't feel what our body does in the moment we cave. This workshop teaches entrepreneurs to notice that body signal and use one small shift. Real human connection with others starts with connection to ourselves, and that's a skill only we can practice."

Reserve Your Free Seat

Ready to Catch It in the Body?

Stop stalling, undercharging, and people-pleasing. Learn the exact spot where your body fires and practice your 60-second shift live with Lisa Adams.

Live Interactive Workshop
Free Registration

Save Your Spot in the Working Session

Instant confirmation + private Zoom room link + printable 4-step worksheet.

We'll email you the calendar invite, private Zoom link, and replay access.
Includes 48-hour replay recording if you cannot attend live
Zero spam guarantee — your information is kept strictly private
Clear Answers

Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know about the format, dates, and live working session.

This live workshop is currently 100% free as part of Lisa Adams' mission to help founders build somatic self-regulation in their business and leadership.

Have a different question or need accommodation?

Email Lisa directly and our team will get back to you within 24 hours.